The Abundant Monk · Free Assessment
Where are you resisting
your own life?
Before We Begin
George Lucas didn't invent the dark side. He found it in a 2,500-year-old Chinese text — and he knew every person watching would recognize it instantly.
Lao Tzu described the two paths of a man's life as alignment and resistance. The Tao is always moving. You either flow with it, or you fight it.
"The Tao does not compete, and yet it overcomes."— Lao Tzu · Tao Te Ching · Chapter 8
Darth Maul wasn't evil. He was a man of extraordinary capability who aimed all of it at resistance. Most men, without knowing it, are living this way in at least one area of their life.
Holding what has already left — a person, an outcome, a past self
Pushing against the natural current instead of moving with it
Letting fear — not wisdom — make your most important decisions
Area 01 of 10
The grudges you carry. The bonds you grip.
Is there a person — a former partner, a parent, a friend — whose absence or betrayal still drives your decisions? Are you holding onto a relationship that has already ended, in the form of anger, grief, or the need to be right?
"Maul lived for one man's destruction. He lost his brother, his empire, his mind. And still he gripped. That is not strength. That is the dark side wearing strength's face."
— The Abundant Monk · Darth Maul SeriesYour Resistance Level
Write It Down — Who or what are you still gripping?
Area 02 of 10
Whose mission are you living?
Palpatine didn't train Maul to win. He trained him to obey. Are you building something genuinely yours — or are you living a script written by your parents, your industry, your fear of what people will think?
"He trained every day. He developed himself past most beings in the galaxy. And he aimed all of it at a purpose someone else gave him."
— The Abundant Monk · Chapter 1Your Resistance Level
Write It Down — Whose voice do you hear when you doubt yourself?
Area 03 of 10
Who you were. Who you're becoming.
Are you clinging to a version of yourself that no longer serves you? A past achievement, a past wound, a past role — the high school athlete, the divorced man, the one who used to be successful? Identity is not a trophy case. It is a living thing.
"The bamboo does not mourn the shape it had last season. It simply grows toward the light."
— Lao Tzu, interpretedYour Resistance Level
Write It Down — What story about yourself are you most afraid to let go of?
Area 04 of 10
Abundance or scarcity. Flow or grip.
Money is energy. It moves. It responds to the frequency you hold about it. Are you in a state of constant scarcity — hoarding, fearing, resenting? Or are you building with patience, giving with generosity, trusting that what you put in motion returns multiplied?
"To hold and fill to overflowing is not as good as to stop in time."
— Lao Tzu · Tao Te Ching · Chapter 9Your Resistance Level
Write It Down — What financial fear is making your decisions right now?
Area 05 of 10
Rocket fuel. Or the pilot?
Rage is not the problem. Unfocused rage is. Maul had more raw power than almost anyone in the galaxy — and it consumed him because he never chose where to aim it. Are you directing your anger, or is it directing you?
"You will not be punished for your anger. You will be punished by your anger."
— The BuddhaYour Resistance Level
Write It Down — Where does your anger leak in ways it shouldn't?
Area 06 of 10
The river. The dam. The choice.
Where are you trying to grip an outcome that cannot be gripped? A child's choices. A partner's feelings. A market's movement. The Stoics called this the dichotomy of control. The Taoists called the practice Wu Wei. Both arrived at the same place.
"You cannot grip the river. You can only choose whether to flow."
— The Abundant Monk · Chapter 1Your Resistance Level
Write It Down — What outcome are you gripping that you need to release?
Area 07 of 10
The dam that stops the river.
Fear is not weakness. Fear is information. The question is not whether you feel it — it is whether you let it make your decisions. Anakin fell not because he was weak, but because fear made the call in the moment it mattered most.
"Train yourself to let go of everything you fear to lose."
— Yoda / Lao Tzu — different millennium, same truthYour Resistance Level
Write It Down — What decision are you avoiding because of fear right now?
Area 08 of 10
The vessel of the warrior.
The body is the instrument through which every discipline is practiced, every purpose pursued, every moment of love expressed. Are you treating yours like a weapon worth maintaining — or like a machine you run into the ground?
"Luminous beings are we — not this crude matter." He was right. But you still need the crude matter to function.
— Yoda · The Empire Strikes BackYour Resistance Level
Write It Down — What is your body telling you that you've been ignoring?
Area 09 of 10
Here. Now. This.
The dark side lives in two places: the past wound that won't heal and the future catastrophe that hasn't happened. When you are with your children, are you with them? Or are you somewhere else entirely?
"Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment."
— The BuddhaYour Resistance Level
Write It Down — When did you last feel completely present? What made it possible?
Area 10 of 10
What you're building. For whom.
Din Djarin had no biological connection to Grogu. Nothing to prove, no fame to seek. He made his choice — at the cost of everything he held sacred — because it was right. What are you building that is larger than yourself? And are you building it with love, or with the need to prove something?
"This is the Way." He said it as a creed. But he lived it as a love letter — to a child, to something worth protecting.
— The Abundant Monk · Mandalorian SeriesYour Resistance Level
Write It Down — In 20 years, what do you want the people you love to say about who you became?
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Your Results
Score 10–20 · The Flow State
You are largely in alignment — moving with the current of your life, not fighting it. Your work now is to maintain this orientation as the storms increase. The warrior's test is not when life is calm. It is when everything shakes. Stay in flow. Deepen the practice.
Score 21–30 · The Crossroads
You are an Anakin, not a Vader. You have the awareness, the capability — and you are at the crossroads. There are areas where you flow beautifully, and areas where you grip with everything you have. The grip is always protecting something real. The work is not to force release. It is to understand what the grip is guarding, and begin — slowly, honestly — to loosen your hand.
Score 31–40 · The Grip
You are strong. That strength is part of the problem. The men who resist hardest are often the most capable — because they believe, with good reason, they can force outcomes through will. But the cost is mounting. The Tao does not ask you to become weak. It asks you to become wise. Redirect that force toward what is actually yours to build.
Score 41–50 · The Shadow
The score is not a judgment. It is a gift. You showed up, answered honestly, and looked at the mirror without flinching. That is more than most men will do. You are carrying significant resistance across multiple areas — and it is costing you more than you know. Not just energy. Peace. Presence. The version of yourself your family deserves to see. You do not need to solve everything today. Identify the one area where the grip is tightest — and begin there.
Your 10 Areas
Your Next Step
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